It's time to finally heal from your divorce.
is this you?
It seems like everyone expects you to just 'get over it' and 'get back out there' and "move on with your life". But no else is telling you how. Every woman's divorce journey is different - you need to find your own path back to you. And, we know it's impossible to see the path when you feel isolated, stuck, blindsided and lost at sea with the new landscape of your life.
You need support. You need community. You need a ROADMAP out of divorce limbo.
This is what so many divorced women tell us all the time. Do these sound familiar to you?
- I want to exchange fear and hesitancy for confidence and peace
- I don't even know where to begin so I stay stuck just spinning my wheels
- Other women seem to have figured it out, why can't I
- I'm afraid to date because I just keep picking the wrong guy
- I don't trust myself anymore and fall back into the same pattern of making bad decisions
- No matter what I do, I can't stop comparing my life to how my ex is living now
We get it. This was our journey - and it's the same for most of the divorced woman we talk to. Despite where you are right now, you can find your path out. We've seen hundreds, if not thousands, of divorced women create beautiful lives they never imagined possible.
It happens every day.
It just takes finding the right support, the right community while being walked step-by-step through the exact right roadmap.
Are there moments when you feel yourself settling for less because you struggle to believe your best life is still in front of you?
You are:
- Stuck in hesitancy because you don't even know what you really want anymore
- Financially unsettled because money has been nothing but drama, drama, drama
- Lost in the fog of "where do I even start"
- Feeling like you're at your breaking point...all the time
- Tired of being alone and trying to handle everything yourself
We get it. Divorce is hard.
You feel totally alone and no one seems to be able to tell you what to do now to make life feel good again. Your family, friends and co-workers expect you to just move on and be fine. And that's what you want too. You're standing in between finally being divorced but not yet really living your new life...
...and that, my friend, is what we call, post-divorce limbo. It's exhausting and it can feel hopeless.
This is so totally normal. It's not just YOU. You don't lack willpower or intelligence - you just don't know what to do. So, you spin your wheels waiting ... and waiting... and waiting...
Or you keep making the same mistakes because you haven't changed the patterns that got you where you are today.
And that can completely destroy your sense of confidence.
Meanwhile, the life you crave is sitting right in front of you. It's ready for you to stop waiting and take inspired action.
The years leading up to and through a divorce steal your joy, your confidence, your sense of who you really are. So you shut down. You play small. You give up on your dreams.
It's time to release the protective armor and get the support, knowledge and tools that will allow you to open yourself up to inner peace, happiness, confidence and new possibilities.
Imagine if...
- You knew exactly how to chase your great, big beautiful dreams and make them a reality
- You had the confidence to reclaim your life and your future - your divorce is in your rear view mirror
- You were surrounded by a group of women who understood exactly what you were going through. (and were ready to cheer you on every step of the way)
- You understood exactly who you are today and felt comfortable in your skin
- You felt empowered by managing your personal finances and money no longer feels stressful
- Your suitcase was packed and your next adventure was in your calendar
- You had reclaimed yourself and your life
- Excitement kept you up at night instead of worry
- You knew, beyond a shadow of doubt, that your best chapter was ahead of you
What if you had the roadmap to make all of this real?
WHAT IF YOU WERE FILLED WITH BOLD CONFIDENCE TO MAKE WHATEVER YOU IMAGINE COME TRUE?
YOUR LIFE IS TOO PRECIOUS TO NOT BE HAPPY
You've literally wasted so much time already. Why would you allow your 'ex' and the divorce process to rob you of another minute?
IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! WE LEARNED THE HARD WAY, THAT THERE ARE FEW RESOURCES AND COMMUNITIES TO HELP WOMEN PICK THEMSELVES UP AFTER DIVORCE. IT TOOK US WAY TOO LONG TO RELEASE THE PAST, LEARN TO DREAM AGAIN AND THEN BUILD LIVES THAT FEEL AUTHENTICALLY US.
THE CONFIDENCE TO CHASE YOUR DREAMS IS ONE HUNDRD PERCENT, WITHOUT A DOUBT, WITHIN YOUR REACH
WHAT IF WE SHARED WITH YOU EVERYTHING WE'VE LEARNED IN A SIMPLE, EASY-TO-FOLLOW ROADMAP
As our marriages were ending, our confidence and sense of who we are, really took a hit. Why didn't anyone tell us that was going to happen? Luckily, we joined forces and went to work figuring out how to reclaim our lives. And we didn't just want to rebuild the lives we had, we wanted lives that felt exciting, authentic and completely in our control. And we were willing to do whatever it took to make this happen.
We wanted to stop thinking "this is NOT what I thought my life would look like".
We looked for a program that would help us rebuild our lives, but unfortunately, we couldn't find anything that specifically spoke to the experience of a divorced woman. Or at least not in way that felt optimistic. We didn't want a community that was focused on the pain of the past. We were ready to move forward.
It took us years of taking courses, getting certifications, reading books, attending conferences, hiring coaches and investing in ourselves so that we could build lives that reflected who we really are and what we wanted out of life.
And people noticed. They saw our confidence return. They noticed how much more empowered we were. We started traveling more, we each bought our own new home, we paid for college tuitions, we laughed a whole lot more, we slept better and we knew exactly how to be alone with ourselves AND what we wanted (and deserved) from a relationship.
It wasn't just an internal transformation, it impacted every aspect of our lives.
What we learned is that the formula is a little bit practical, a healthy dash of time, the right circle of beautiful, smart, funny, creative women and a sprinkle of magic to bring it all together.
We just couldn't keep this to ourselves, it's too good. We invite you to skip to the front of the line and turbo boost your next chapter.
INTRODUCING...
This self-paced program is the feel good formula for bouncing back after divorce. It includes everything you need to reclaim yourself and your life. AND you never have to feel alone or confused or stuck again. This simple to follow program walks you through the entire process. We promise.
Fall in love with your life again - without sleepless nights and wasted days.
I don't need to hear anything more - this is exactly what I needThis is how your life will change
- Fully show up for yourself without explanation or apology
Find your inner mojo so that you walk through life feeling centered and confident. You learn to stop second guessing yourself, paying attention to everyone else's opinions and keeping score with your ex. - Dramatically change the quality and depth of your relationships
By focusing on your own growth and recovery, you begin to improve your sense of self-worth. This simple act of loving yourself more, naturally changes how other people interact with you. - Walk into your next chapter energized with hope
Release any fear, anxiety or unsurety you have about what is possible for you now
And you'll be able to relax and enjoy the process because we've created this simple and quick program to share our experience, tools, and wisdom with you!
Unlike other courses and programs that leave you without so much as an email address to reach out to. You're invited to join a private Facebook group and can ask questions there - or email us and we'll respond personally to any roadblocks you might bump into.
HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL GET:
It's everything you need to
fall in love with YOU
again
Curriculum
You get immediate access to the Confidence After Divorce curriculum. In this self-paced program, you'll access a variety of unique, interactive, learning experiences that will energize you to get crystal clear about who you are now.
You will gain confidence, shift your mindset and learn simple but powerful tools that you will use for the rest of your big, beautiful new life.
INSPIRATION
We want you to shed (for good this time!) the limiting self beliefs that are holding you back from jumping into that gorgeous, abundant life that is right in front of you. So we will be filling your cup with inspiration, tips, and short cuts.
ALL THE FEELS
Growth and change bring out all the emotions. You will laugh, cry, cheer on, and empathize with the other women in the program. When you finally release the big emotions that have been holding you back - you magically create space inside your life for deep healing, new adventures, and courageous dreams.
Best of all, you walk away with a newfound confidence that will rock your socks.
Release the idea that you can't recover from divorce and things will never be good again.
Embrace the idea that this is your new beginning and you deserve all the peace, clarity and happiness that life has to offer.
Get your hands on the tools and actions we took to transform our post-divorce lives from less than inspiring to rewarding, abundant and filled with confidence.
Life after divorce can feel amazing!
YOU. CAN. DO. THIS.
Divorced women are thriving every day. We know because they are part of our community. The women inside our programs are finding their confidence and joy again. They have healed broken relationships, exponentially increased their salaries, taken bucket list vacations, formed new friendships, improved the way they see themselves and elevated their standards so that life just feels so good again. And they aren't unicorns - you can learn how to live your best life too!
Best of all - it really is so much easier than you think!
Let's face it - going through a divorce is emotionally exhausting. The good news - rebuilding your next chapter doesn't have to be hard!
YOU CAN TOTALLY TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE AND START FEELING BETTER THIS WEEK.
Divorced women absolutely deserve to love their lives. That's why we created the Confidence After Divorce program.
And just who will be mentoring you through this program?
Us! We are Mimi and Carolyn
ENTREPRENEURS, MOMS TO 5 GROWN(ISH) KIDS, SUPER SUPPORTERS OF ALL WOMEN+, DOG FANATICS, EXPERIENCED DIVORCE MENTORS, LOVERS OF LIFE.
Both of our marriages spiraled downhill and slowly dissolved around the same time. We found ourselves on the cusp of becoming empty nesters as our marriages were ending. The blank space of "what now" was both exhilarating and terrifying. As we thought about navigating this new chapter, we realized that nothing new or exciting was on our horizons. It was a wake up call. In all of the planning and supporting for the rest of our families - we never took time to plan for ourselves.
What followed was too many years and too much money wasted. We were running around trying anything and everything. And feeling very alone in the process. We had no strategy, no support and no community. It was all so confusing. And hard.
Putting together a strategy and finding our community changed everything. We were able to breathe easier, laugh more and start tapping into the magic of WONDER again. Suddenly we realized we were moving on!
Carolyn and I started paying attention to what was working for us and what wasn’t. Where we should focus our energy to get the best results. And we discovered that when we focused on the right things, change happened quickly.
Once we "cracked the code" we felt a strong call to share our formula with other divorced women.
Five years and hundreds of students later we can happily tell you - your divorce does not need to define the rest of your life. If you’re ready to stop feeling lost in your own life, you are in the right place.
"This is the best investment I've made in me"
I now know and believe that I am worth it and so are you! You will learn so many valuable tools you can continue to use in your life for so many situations. Carolyn and Mimi are THE best and all the women in community are the most supportive and caring group of women, women I've learned so much from and with whom I plan to keep friendships!! Please, come join us--you deserve it. It will be one of the best things you do for yourself!
Rhonda S.N.
Module 1
Reconnecting to You
You are vibrant, determinded and ready for more out of your life. We will help you center yourself so that you can get crystal clear about what your soul is craving right now.
The exercises we do around inner confidence will give you the energy and joyful curiousity to begin your life transformation. You will grab hold of this beautiful thread and begin to weave it into a life that blows your mind!
Module 2
Relationships
Let's face it - divorce doesn't just affect your marriage - it impacts all of your relationships in one way or another. And part of the healing process is figuring out your new social circle, adjusting to new family dynamics and allowing yourself to be open to finding a new partner - or getting really comfortable with being single.
This module will allow you to trust your ability to find and nurture positive relationships in every realm of your life - family, friends, co-workers and even romantic if your (healthy and healed!) heart desires it.
Module 3
Money Confidence
Money is a tool. And you are 100% capable of learning how to use it instead of being a servant to it.
Taking control of your finances is a huge part of "moving on" from divorce. Feeling confident about your finances, having the language to talk about money and knowing how to create the abundance you crave, gives you freedom, options and agency over your life.
MODULE 4
CONFIDENCE Get More Out of Life
Now is the time to unleash the parts of you that were hidden or ‘shrunk’ in your marriage and begin to move through the world being confidently yourself. When you fully show up for yourself, you will open doors to your inner self that you didn’t know were closed.
Confidence will shine from deep within and you will become a magnet to new adventures, experiences and opportunities!
Confidence After Divorce gets you from lost and stuck to vibrant and thriving in record time. This is your ticket out of overwhelm and into easy-breezy.
Let's get you started!
Not only will you get instant access to all the curriculum materials, but you'll also get any future updates we throw in! You can totally make this the moment that everything changes - in a positive way.
What if divorce is the beginning of your happily ever after?
“For the first time, in a long time, I felt hope.”
Fiona P.
Everyday I wake up I feel as if I am exactly where I'm supposed to be. I have accomplished the main goal I had moving into my home and happy to say I am 90% done with my renovations. My home feels Luscious. My plans for my future feel right. My hobbies and activities are fulfilling me in ways I never expected. It has been because of what I learned about myself on this journey.
Grace G.
I feel empowered, I know that I can make positive changes for myself. I'm on the right path for me, I can feel it.
Samantha M.
I feel that I can create a life I love and am doing it a little everyday. I started the program feeling really afraid of what life would look like and now feel energized and empowered.
Jackie C.
I'm ready to invest in myself and feel confident again
I'M INStill Got Questions?
Is this program right for me?
What is the time commitment?
What is my financial commitment?
What if I have more questions?
Confidence After Divorce
combines simple, effective exercises to get you moving forward to a future that feels adventurous, positive and fulfilling - and it happens in a community of amazing, like-minded divorced women who know exactly where you are and are eager to watch you ditch any remaining divorced vibes and claim your future.
- Open your mind and heart to a new level of expectation - learn to dream BIG again
- Acknowledge to yourself that this is the moment to prioritize yourself and feel comfortable putting your needs at the top of your to do list.
- Feel totally comfortable with money - learn practical tools, release shame and fear and take a deep breath and relax.
- Speed up the process because you are not alone - piecemealing information without support, encouragement and laughter.
- Invest in YOU. Get immediate access to specific exercises, worksheets, challenges and mindset tools to accelerate your healing.
Our LAST PIECE OF ADVICE
We know first hand how hard it can be to fully, 100% recover from divorce. And yet - it is the most important thing you can do now that you are "on the other side". We both spent years, spinning our wheels, treading the same waters - desperately wanting MORE but having little information on how to get it out of this new life. So. much. wasted. time. So. much. wasted. energy.
Our advice - don't waste another day wondering "what next" or waiting for something (anything!) to magically change. Life is short and time is precisous. Allow yourself the luxury of guidance, support and simplicity. The next chapter can be your best chapter if you decide to go for it!