If you're feeling stuck after divorce and wondering "what's next?", you're in the right place. We got you!
Thousands of women have used our programs, online workshops, weekly challenges, coaching programs and more to heal from their ex, to uncover the best versions of themselves and to nourish their souls with radical self care.
What do the women that we've coached all have in common?
✔ they were seeking answers, clarity and guidance
✔ they desperately wanted to feel better about themselves
✔ they were ready to figure out what makes them happy and chase it with confidence
✔ they were looking for friendships
✔ they wanted to think about 'maybe' starting to date again without getting their hearts broken this time
And all these women found success through working with us. They gained the clarity and confidence they needed to finally ditch any remaining divorce vibes.
The result of all this?
They were able to move past the trauma of their divorce while launching their children into exciting lives of their own - secure in the knowledge that Mom is fine.
HERE'S THE THING...
You're ready to feel good again, to stop fixating on everything that went wrong in the marriage, to stop obsessing about your ex, and to start figuring out how to 'move on'. Maybe you aren't even sure it's possible for you...but you keep hearing a voice saying, 'yes, it is'. You feel that spark re-igniting inside of you and you think "maybe it is time, maybe I can do this".
Are there moments when you feel yourself settling for less because you struggle to believe your best life is still in front of you?
Maybe you are:
- Feeling stuck because you don't even know what you really want anymore
- Caught in the difficult cycle of codependency with your ex
- Financially unsettled because money has been nothing but drama, drama, drama
- Losing precious days of your life because you don't even know where to focus
- Feeling like you're at your breaking point...all the time
- Afraid to date because you're afraid you'll 'fail' again
- Dealing with the double hits of divorce and becoming an empty nester
We get it. Divorce is brutal.
You're standing in between finally being divorced but not yet really living your new life...
...and that, my friend, is what we call, post-divorce limbo. It's exhausting and it can feel hopeless.
This is so totally normal. It's not just YOU. You don't lack willpower or intelligence - you just don't know what to do. So, you spin your wheels waiting ... and waiting... and waiting...
Or you keep making the same mistakes because you haven't changed the patterns that got you where you are today.
And that can completely destroy your sense of confidence.
Meanwhile, the life you crave is sitting right in front of you.
All of you have to do is take a deep breath, work up a little courage and go for it!
Imagine if...
🔥You were in a relationship that felt like a true partnership filled with honesty, trust, communication and respect
🔥You had released the hold of your narcissistic and/or addicted ex and reclaimed your life
🔥You were surrounded by a group of women who got you and totally understood what you were going through (and were ready to cheer you on every step of the way)
🔥You knew exactly who you are today and felt comfortable in your skin
🔥You were confident you had the money to handle whatever life might throw at you
🔥You knew, beyond a shadow of doubt, that your divorce was in your rear view mirror and your best chapter was ahead of you
What if you had a proven method and all of the support to get back on your feet and to make all of this real?
WHAT IF WE HANDED YOU A STEP-BY-STEP METHOD TO BEAUTIFULLY (AND FINALLY) RECOVER FROM YOUR DIVORCE
As our marriages were ending, our confidence and sense of who we are, really took a hit. Why didn't anyone tell us that was going to happen? Luckily, we joined forces and went to work figuring out how to reclaim our lives. And we didn't just want to rebuild the lives we had, we wanted lives that felt exciting, authentic and completely in our control. We were both recovering from very difficult partners that had a range of issues including, addictions, narcissism, trauma and dysfunction.
We knew we wanted better for ourselves, and our children. And we were willing to do whatever it took to make this happen.
We wanted to stop thinking "this is NOT what I thought my life would look like".
We looked for a program that would help us rebuild our lives, but unfortunately, we couldn't find anything that specifically spoke to the experience of a divorced woman. Or at least not in way that felt optimistic.
We didn't want a community that was focused on the pain of the past. We were ready to move forward.
Know what we did? We learned what we needed to learn, let go of the things we needed to let go of, and created our own mini-community.
We started traveling more, we each bought our own new home, we paid for college tuitions, we laughed a whole lot more, we slept better and we knew exactly how to be alone with ourselves AND what we wanted (and deserved) from a relationship.
We realized we just couldn't keep this method to ourselves, it's too good. We invite you to skip to the front of the line and turbo boost your next chapter.
If this is the energy you need, click here to join the program ➡INTRODUCING...
This program is the feel good formula for bouncing back after divorce. Healing from a difficult divorce isn't easy. This method is the answer. It includes everything you need to reclaim yourself and your life. AND you never have to feel alone or confused or stuck again. We will hold your hand and walk you through the entire process. We promise.
Fall in love with your life again - without sleepless nights and wasted days.
A taste of the what's ahead:
It's everything you need to regain control of your life
again
Self-Care & Well Being
How long have you put your needs on the back burner? And what would it feel like to bring them front and center? What if you felt worthy of focusing on YOU and could more easily shift from negative spiral thoughts to feeling calm and centered? So good, right?!
Becoming the best version of you
Profound and fundamental self-growth work that anchors you in your identity today and helps you become the woman you desire to be. This lays the groundwork for a lifetime marked by confidence and clarity in every life circumstance.
Financial Confidence
Whatever your financial picture after your divorce, you can improve it. But you have to get real with what's getting in your way. What money blocks and limiting beliefs are standing between you and the money you need to feel safe? Let's clear those out!
Releasing Sadness & Anger
Learn strategies that provide a comprehensive framework for addressing the emotional complexities that often accompany the grief and anger of divorce - particularly if accompanied by betrayal. This is the work we all have to do - but you don't have to do it alone.
Exploring new relationships
You now have the opportunity to redefine priorities, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate relationships that contribute to your personal well-being and fulfillment. It takes confidence to establish clear communication, require mutual respect, and share emotional openness.
Finding Your People
The foundation of the work we do is based on the healing power of women working through the messy parts of their lives inside a safe, centering, affirming community. If you've been craving connection - we welcome you into our private facebook group. And you'll be the first to hear about our live events and pop up classes.
- The Recovery Method curriculum: a variety of unique interactive learning experiences to aid your healing & growth
- Community - because we know our true power multiplies in connection to other women
- Monthly Q&A calls so you get the answers and coaching you need
- Recordings from our guest experts on a range of topics: healing from a high-conflict ex, the science of confidence, and more
- Weekly co-working sessions to maintain momentum with a bit of gentle accountability.
we know you're going to love these
- BONUS 1 --> The 'I am HERE and I want to be THERE' workshop. Use the Gap Lab to identify the gaps between where you are now and where your heart envisions being.
- BONUS 2 --> The Recovery Toolkit full of our favorite (and our student's favorite) resources to upgrade your thoughts and shift your energy. This is the secret sauce - you're going to want this.
- BONUS 3 --> Pay in full and get a free Jumpstart Coaching Call with Carolyn and Mimi so we get to know your unique story and your specific needs. This call alone just might be your best investment.
This is how your life will change
- Fully show up for yourself without explanation or apology
Find your inner mojo so that you walk through life feeling centered and confident. You learn to stop second guessing yourself, paying attention to everyone else's opinions and keeping score with your ex. - Dramatically change the quality and depth of your relationships
By focusing on your own growth and recovery, you begin to improve your sense of self-worth. This simple act of loving yourself more, naturally changes how other people interact with you. - Freedom from self-doubt
Recalibrate to feel completely grounded in your reality and learn how to listen to your "body compass" so that you engage with the world from a place of clarity and complete self trust - Walk into your next chapter energized with hope
Release any fear, anxiety or limiting beliefs you have about what is possible for you now
And you'll be able to relax and enjoy the process because we will walk this path beside you to share our experience, tools, and wisdom with you!
YOU. CAN. DO. THIS.
Divorced women are thriving every day. We know because they are part of our community. The women inside our programs are finding their confidence and joy again. They are healing broken relationships, exponentially increasing their salaries, taking bucket list vacations, forming new friendships, improving the way they see themselves and elevating their standards so that life just feels so good again. And they aren't unicorns - you can learn how to live your best life too!
Best of all - it really is so much easier than you think!
Let's face it - going through a divorce is emotionally exhausting. The good news - rebuilding your next chapter doesn't have to be hard!
YOU CAN TOTALLY TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE AND START FEELING BETTER THIS WEEK.
Divorced women absolutely deserve to love their lives. That's why we created The Recovery Method program.
And just who will be mentoring you through this program?
Us! We are Mimi and Carolyn
ENTREPRENEURS, MOMS TO 5 GROWN(ISH) KIDS, SUPER SUPPORTERS OF ALL WOMEN+, DOG FANATICS, EXPERIENCED DIVORCE MENTORS, LOVERS OF LIFE.
Both of our marriages spiraled downhill and slowly dissolved around the same time. We found ourselves on the cusp of becoming empty nesters as our marriages were ending. The blank space of "what now?" was both exhilarating and terrifying. As we thought about navigating this new chapter, we realized that nothing new or exciting was on our horizons. It was a wake up call. In all of the planning and supporting for the rest of our families - we never took time to plan for ourselves.
What followed was too many years and too much money wasted. We were running around trying anything and everything. And feeling very alone in the process. We had no strategy, no support and no community. It was all so confusing. And hard.
Putting together a strategy and finding our community changed everything. We were able to breathe easier, laugh more and start tapping into the magic of WONDER again. Suddenly we realized we were moving on!
We started paying attention to what was working for us and what wasn’t. Where we should focus our energy to get the best results. And we discovered that when we focused on the right things, change happened quickly.
Once we "cracked the code" we felt a strong call to share our formula with other divorced women.
Five years, multiple certifications and thousands of divorced women later we can happily tell you - your divorce does not need to define the rest of your life. If you’re ready to stop feeling lost in your own life, you are in the right place.
I'm ready to meet new women, think new thoughts and jumpstart my new life
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Our LAST PIECE OF ADVICE
We know first hand how hard it can be to fully, 100% recover from divorce. And yet - it is the most important thing you can do now that you are "on the other side". We both spent years, spinning our wheels, treading the same waters - desperately wanting MORE but having little information on how to get it out of this new life. So. much. wasted. time. So. much. wasted. energy.
Our advice - don't waste another day wondering "what's next?" or waiting for something (anything!) to magically change. Life is short and time is precious. Allow yourself the luxury of guidance, support and simplicity. The next chapter can be your best chapter if you decide to go for it!
